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Dec 9

Performance skills – 101 Sharpening your skills to use in every aspect of your program.

One of my greatest frustrations is that only in the church world do people think that performing, preaching and mc’ing are a natural gift. This belief means that (1) those who believe that they don’t have this gift are excused from any of the aforementioned tasks and (2) those with the gifts just have to keep performing and they will get better and better.
This concept is absolutely ludicrous. It is the same as a man saying “I have always naturally been good with my hands, I am going to start practicing operating on people and I am sure I will get better”. Even in the world of fictional TV shows this would be too far of a stretch. Doogie Howser MD was a wizz kid and a doctor by 16 but he still did all of the study and training…

A football team doesn’t just play games to get better but they run
specific drills to improve specific skills that will help them with the game. This is what I believe we need to start doing.
In this episode we are going to look at one skill that is crucial in on-stage speaking. In fact if I could only tell you one thing that most help you it would be this:

Truth by Vibration!

The year was 2002 and I was in a theatre class. I was performing a piece from the “Dead Poets Society” with a girl in my class, and I had to confess my love for her. We got to the most crucial part where I said with all my acting skill – “I love you”

“CUT”

The teacher stopped me and told me he didn’t believe me and to try again.
“I love you”

“CUT”

The teacher tried to help. He told me to just say the line. I said with no effort “I love you” and he said “PERFECT – that is it” and told me to do it in the scene. I got to the part again, I said my perfect line and he said “CUT”

Over the next 30 mins it was really painful. He got me to stop and start 20 times speaking the line and getting it perfect, then performing it and failing. After the 30 mins I still didn’t get it. I had no idea what he was saying because to me they sounded exactly the same. It wasn’t until a few months later I found out a secret that has changed the way I have performed ever since.

I went to a voice training class and the speech specialist said during a routine exercise “Truth is communicated on Vibration”.

Every time you speak, sing or make a noise a vibration is made in your body. We generally talk with a bit of chest vibration and a bit of throat vibration but when we get on stage for some strange reason most people’s voice gets a little bit higher and it goes straight to the throat. This is the easiest way to tell the difference from a preacher that has been preaching for years and a rookie. The rookie’s voice is always a little bit higher than they normally speak.

When I perform my voice goes high, goes low, goes all over the place for the enjoyment of the crowd, but whenever I want to communicate a message I make sure my chest vibrates.

Professional performers are trained to speak on vibration (that meaning in the chest) because it sounds more confident, it is more relaxing, and you can speak for as long as you want and your throat will not tire. The other main reason is that if you don’t speak on vibration people will not believe you.
So give it some practice. It is a learnt skill that takes time. It is not speaking in a deep voice but it has certain feel that has to be learnt. The best way is to practice your message with your hand on your chest and focus on getting the vibrations lower.

If you look at all the great preachers, performers and mc’s, you will notice that they speak very similarly to when they are off-stage. They may not realise they are speaking on vibration but have just developed that over the years. If you adopt this specific training you will find that you advance a lot quicker than those who have gone before you.

Have Fun

Dan.

Dec 4

I have the distinct privilege of reviewing the newest release from Yancy “Have a Fancy Yancy Christmas.” Two words “ROCK ‘N ROLL” (“n” does not count as a word!)

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Click on the picture to order now!

The album is a mixture of classic Christmas carols and all time favorites (like “Wonderful Christmastime” by Paul McCartney!) Totaling ten tracks, one being a medley of 4 songs and 3 originals, 2 penned by Yancy herself, this album speaks Christmas time. The fun, traditions, and reason for the season we all love is expressed in the upbeat arrangements Yancy has put together. My wife (who it seems has taken over my blog) likes the arrangement and performance of “Wonderful Christmastime” from Yance over the original (scandalest, I know!) If you have children who like Christmas, and what kid doesn’t, get this album. I guarantee it will become a Christmas favorite. Don’t just take my word for it, hear what kids are saying about it.

Pierson age 5 “I think that she is the best singer”

Peyton age 10 “I think that she has a great voice” ” I really enjoyed Wonderful Christmastime”

Teresa teacher/mom “We really liked them!”

So act now and get “Have a Fancy Yancy Christmas” today. I’m sure will become an instant classic in your home, car or wherever.

God’s Love and Peace Out!

Nov 10

My husband has been battling with beginning his ministry and was hit today with what he thought was a brick wall.  So many times in ministry you hit them, and you are left to wonder am I doing the right thing?  What was I thinking that I could do this?  That is the problem right there…YOU cannot do this.  The most amazing part about your calling is that it requires God’s help to make it happen. 

I think the first major key is to know your calling.  If you ever start to doubt get on your face before God and actively seek his direction.  Your calling is not your calling unless God called you to do it. 

The second key is to know your God.  Know that God is not going to give you a passion and calling only for it to waste away.  And he is not going to guide you out of your comfort zone to do something only for you to fall flat on your face.  God wants you to succeed.  The great commission and souls are dependent on your success. Do you honestly think he would sacrifice that?

I think about Peter when Jesus called him out of the boat and he began walking on water.  What happened after that?  He lost focus!  He starting looking at all of the chaos around him instead of focusing on the one who called him into the middle of the chaos.  Did Jesus let him drowned for that?  No, He picked him up and helped him safely get back into the boat.

And lastly, after you have done all of that, if you are still stuck, and need guidance, remember who the real author of your calling is. Ask Him for guidance and help.  Find buddies who will agree with you in prayer and support and fasting until the problem is resolved.  I think sometimes God puts up road blocks to see just how serious we are about following Him and the calling He has placed before us. 

Are you serious?

Oct 16

Real forgiveness can hurt, yet be freeing. Check this out.

This video could have easily had the son behind the glass in stead of the father. What a griping picture of forgiveness none the less.

Is this the way it looks to the Father when we ask for forgiveness? Probably, thankfully there is grace. Grace keeps it from being so emotionally ugly and makes the action beautiful. I think that is why it’s so hard for us to forgive each other, the emotional ugliness. We have to rise above that ugliness and learn to forgive each other. We will never see recovery from the wrong that has been done until forgiveness is given. The past stays the same, but it’s the past. The only people who live in the past are those who are afraid of the future. Don’t allow your past or unforgiveness to be an anchor on your life. If you need to forgive someone DO IT! Don’t forget that includes you; do you need to forgive yourself? Jesus has given you forgiveness grant it to others.

God’s Love and Peace Out!

Oct 13

For a number of years, and now recently, I have worked a full-time secular job and led ministry. Those of you who do this know how difficult it is. I can’t imagine being in this situation with kids of your own. I want to take a moment and offer some encouragement to you. YOU ARE GREAT!! I LOVE YOU!! KEEP IT UP!! YOU SMELL NICE!! OK that last one was just for me (I smell like Krispy Kreme doughnuts.) Seriously thank you for your work. I know it is very tiresome work, but believe me it is definitely worth it.

I do want to offer some suggestions for when you have had it up to here.

  • Worship – take time to retreat to a peaceful place and commune with the Father. Psalms 23 tells us about resting and renew our strength. Isaiah 40:31 trust in the Lord, you will not grow weary. By worshiping you are placing God as the center, focusing your attention on Him and not your to do list. His strength will come as you lean on Him.
  • Prayer – spend time in the closet in prayer. 1 Corinthians 14:4 says personal prayer is personal strength.
  • Give it to Christ – Philippians 4:13 Christ is your strength.
  • Mind your priorities – Luke 16:10 Jesus teaches be faithful in little things. Keep God first, your spouse and family second & third and your ministry last. It sounds weird but the pay off is fantastic!
  • Use your gifts – Do only what you are called to do and what God has gifted you to do. Don’t say yes to something just because “If I don’t no one will.” The reason no one else will is because there is no need for them to.
  • Delegate – Be organized and delegate responsibilities to others. You maybe surprised what some one can do if you ask and instruct them.
  • Have fun – take time to laugh and have fun. Find ways to relive stress and foster joy & happiness.

I know these are common sense, but sometime we need to be reminded of the simplest of things. What you think? Do you have any suggestions to help? Comment below.

I want to send out a challenge to all my full-time children’s pastor friends drop some lines of encouragement to those who pull double duty.

God’s Love and Peace Out!

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